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Integrity means not cutting corners, which is similar to deflating a tire without warning.

James Spader "Tim Garrity" is shorter compared with John Cusack "Peter Burton."

Imogen Stubbs, portraying "Diana," the Senator's daughter, states: "I SEE HOW PETER GETS A HOLD ON PEOPLE."

1:23:37

HE'S SO GOOD AT TELLING YOU WHAT YOU WANT TO HEAR. "Imogen Stubbs - IMDb

Imogen Stubbs (born 20 February 1961) is an English actress and writer.

Her first leading part was in Privileged (1982), followed by A Summer Story (1988).

Her first play, We Happy Few, was produced in 2004. In 2008 she joined Reader's Digest as a contributing editor and writer of fiction.

Career

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In the 1980s Stubbs achieved success on stage with the Royal Shakespeare Company, including playing Desdemona in Othello, directed by Trevor Nunn.[6] Other stage work includes Saint Joan at the Strand Theatre and Heartbreak House at the Haymarket, and in 1997 she played in a London production of A Streetcar Named Desire.

In 1988, Stubbs was a notable Ursula Brangwen in a BBC serialization of The Rainbow, and in 1993 and 1994 had the title role in Anna Lee. She played Lucy Steele in Sense and Sensibility (1995).

In July 2004, Stubbs's play We Happy Few, directed by Trevor Nunn and starring Juliet Stevenson and Marcia Warren, opened at the Gielgud Theatre, London, after a try-out in Malvern.[7] In September 2008 Reader's Digest announced that she had joined the magazine as a contributing editor and writer of adventure stories.[8]

Personal life

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In 1994, Stubbs married Trevor Nunn.[9] The couple have two children:[10] a son and a daughter, Ellie Nunn, who is also an actress.[11] In April 2011, Stubbs announced that she and her husband were separating.[12] Her partner is Jonathan Guy Lewis.[2][3]

Imogen Stubbs Editorial Stock Photo - Stock Image | Shutterstock Editorial Prints & Posters of Imogen Stubbs 235202

Marriage provides the solace of worked-on friendship. who said that?
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The quote “Marriage provides the solace of worked-on friendship and the joy of being known profoundly” is attributed to Imogen Stubbs, an English actress and writer. This reflection on marriage emphasizes the comfort found in a friendship that has been nurtured over time and the deep satisfaction of being truly understood by one's partner.Wise Famous Quotes+12Happy Wives Club+12Pinterest+12

Stubbs's perspective highlights the idea that a successful marriage is built upon a foundation of enduring friendship, requiring continuous effort and mutual understanding. This sentiment aligns with the views of relationship experts like Dr. John Gottman, who assert that deep friendship is a cornerstone of lasting marriages.RiverLife Church

For more insights on the role of friendship in marriage, you might find this article from Focus on the Family informative: Focus on the Family.Focus on the Family

 
 
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In Chinese of the above
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当然，以下是对这句名言及其背景的中文翻译与解释：

???? 原文名言：

“Marriage provides the solace of worked-on friendship and the joy of being known profoundly.”
—— Imogen Stubbs（伊莫金·斯塔布斯），英国演员与作家

???? 中文翻译：“婚姻提供了努力經營的友誼所帶來的慰藉，以及被深刻了解的喜悅。”

“婚姻带来一种深耕友情后的慰藉，以及被深刻理解的喜悦。”

???? 中文解释：

这句话出自英国女演员兼作家 伊莫金·斯塔布斯。她以这句话表达了对婚姻的独到见解：

  • 婚姻不是一蹴而就的幸福，而是一段 “被认真经营的友情” 所带来的温暖与安慰。

  • 真正令人欣喜的，是在婚姻中被 “深刻地了解”，无需伪装，被全然接纳。

  • 这与婚姻研究专家（如约翰·高特曼博士）所强调的“深层友谊是幸福婚姻的基础”不谋而合。

如你需要这句话作为婚礼致辞、书信题词或文化文章开头，也可以帮你进行风格化润色。是否希望我将其改写为古意、诗意或情书语气？

 
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explain 约翰·高特曼博士
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当然。以下是关于 约翰·高特曼博士（Dr. John Gottman） 的详细介绍：

???? 约翰·高特曼博士简介

John M. Gottman（约翰·高特曼），是当今世界最具影响力的婚姻与人际关系研究专家之一，美国心理学家，尤其以其对 婚姻稳定性与离婚预测的研究 而著称。

他是 华盛顿大学心理学荣誉教授，也是与妻子 朱莉·高特曼博士（Dr. Julie Gottman） 一起创办的 高特曼研究所（The Gottman Institute） 的联合创始人。

???? 主要成就与理论：

1. ???? “爱情实验室”（Love Lab）

他以“爱情实验室”闻名——在这个实验室里，高特曼通过生理监测、面部表情、语音语调分析等方式，长期观察伴侣互动行为，并发展出一整套科学、可测量的婚姻质量评估方法。

2. ???? 可预测离婚的“魔力四骑士”理论（The Four Horsemen）

他提出，有四种行为极易预测离婚的发生，被称为婚姻关系中的 “魔力四骑士”：

  • 批评（Criticism）

  • 鄙视（Contempt）

  • 防御（Defensiveness）

  • 冷战/逃避（Stonewalling）

其中，“鄙视”是最具毁灭性的行为。

3. ???? 情感银行账户（Emotional Bank Account）

他认为良好的关系中，彼此之间应不断“存入”积极情绪（理解、关心、鼓励），以抵消冲突带来的负面影响。

4. ???? “5比1”黄金互动比例

通过研究幸福夫妻的沟通方式，高特曼发现：在冲突中，如果每一个负面互动，能被五个正面互动所中和，婚姻关系就能长期维持稳定。

???? 著作代表：

  • 《爱的五种语言》（与盖瑞·查普曼不同）

  • 《The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work》（《幸福婚姻的七个法则》）

  • 《What Makes Love Last?》（《让爱长久的秘密》）

  • 《Raising An Emotionally Intelligent Child》（《培养情商高的孩子》）

???? 总结：

约翰·高特曼博士的研究将“爱”这件抽象又复杂的事，转化成了可观察、可量化、可训练的行为系统。
他被《心理学会会刊》誉为：“世界上最擅长读懂婚姻的人”。

如你希望，我可以用他的理论来分析某段关系的健康状态，或改写为适合演讲/书信/教学引用的版本。需要吗？

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Sir
Trevor Nunn
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Born
Trevor Robert Nunn


14 January 1940 (age 85)
Ipswich, Suffolk, England
Alma mater Downing College, Cambridge
Occupation(s) Theatre director, lyricist
Years active 1960s–present
Spouses
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(m. 1969; div. 1986)?
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Sharon Lee-Hill
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(m. 1986; div. 1991)?
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(m. 1994; sep. 2011)?
Children 5, including Laurie and Ellie
Imogen Stubbs
Born 20 February 1961 (age 64)
Education St Paul's Girls' School

Westminster School

Exeter College, Oxford

Royal Academy of Dramatic Art
Occupation Actress
Years active 1982–present
Spouse
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(m. 1994; sep. 2011)?
Children 2
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They're the best of friends. Soon, they'll be the worst of enemies. John Cusack (America's Sweethearts, Say Anything) and James Spader (sex, lies and videotape, Pretty In Pink) star in this dramatic, absorbing story of two friends who move from law school to Washington's corridors of power. Cusack plays Peter, a lower-class go-getter who climbs to the position of congressman by betraying everyone who ever trusted him, including his idealistic blue-blooded pal Tim (Spader). Tim, of course, would never cross a friend. Unless it was to avenge his own betrayal...

 
 
 

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R
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ARE YOU TELLING ME HE'S LYING? SIT DOWN AND COOL OFF. SIT DOWN! ANSWER ME! WHY DON'T YOU SIDE WITH YOUR HUSBAND ONE GOD DAMN TIME?
YOU WANTED THIS, TOO. IT DOESN'T JUST COME TO US. GOD, I HATE YOU!
DIANA, GET BACK IN HERE! DIANA? I'M GOING OUT AND INTRODUCE YOU,
AND THEN OUR DEAL IS DONE. AND IF YOU EVER DO ANYTHING TO HURT MY DAUGHTER...
I'LL DESTROY YOU.
GENTLEMEN-- WE'LL BE RIGHT OUT. NOW WHAT AM I SUPPOSED TO DO, HUH?
THEY'RE EXPECTING TO SEE THE BEAUTIFUL WIFE. I NEED SOMETHING-- A JOKE, SOMETHING--
"SHE'S NERVOUS--" DID YOU BLACKMAIL THE SENATOR? I PLAYED HARDBALL, BUT I NEVER THREATENED TO USE IT.
COME ON. IT'S ME. THIS ISN'T LETTING THE AIR OUT OF A FUCKING TIRE. DON'T START.
PETER, WE GOT TO GO. JUST--
YOU WERE RIGHT. YOUR FRIEND BURTON WAS THE SOURCE OF THE LEAK OF THE NEW HAMPTON INVESTIGATION.
WE THINK HE SET YOU UP AS A FAVOR TO JOHN PALMERI. ONE OF PALMERI'S ASSOCIATES GOT A FAT FEDERAL PROJECT
BY HAVING NEW HAMPTON TAKEN OUT OF THE BIDDING. BURTON'S HAD CLOSE TIES TO HIM FOR YEARS.
HE LIVES IN ONE OF PALMERI'S HOUSES. WE BELIEVE HIS CAMPAIGN IS BEING BACKED BY PALMERI AND HIS ASSOCIATES.
YOU'RE ASSUMING NOTHING. IT'S ALL BACKED UP. WE'VE HAD AN ONGOING INVESTIGATION
INTO PALMERI AND HIS FAMILY. HE'S TIED INTO RACKETEERING, BRIBERY, AND FRAUD IN TWO STATES.
WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO? NOTHING RIGHT NOW. WE DON'T HAVE ANYTHING SOLID ENOUGH TO INDICT PALMERI.
AS FOR YOUR PAL BURTON, WELL, FUCKING YOU OVER IS NOT A FEDERAL OFFENSE.
LET ME GO AFTER HIM. WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT? AUTHORIZATION TO WORK UNDERCOVER ON BURTON'S CAMPAIGN.
I'D BE IN A UNIQUE POSITION TO GATHER EVIDENCE ON PALMERI. IF BURTON'S BREAKING THE LAW,
WE MAKE A CASE IN THE PUBLIC INTEGRITY SECTION. TIM, YOU'RE NOT FBI. YOU'RE NOT EQUIPPED.
HE TRUSTS ME. YOU HAVE SOMEBODY'S TRUST, YOU HAVE ALL THE EQUIPMENT YOU NEED
TO NAIL THEM. LET ME MAKE SOME CALLS.
HEY! HEY! HOW YOU DOING, PETE? BETTER NOW.
THANK YOU, MAN. I HAVEN'T DONE ANYTHING YET. THANKS FOR STILL HAVING A LITTLE FAITH.
WHERE'S THE MEAN RED MACHINE? I HAD TO SELL IT. MEDIA GUY SAID IT MADE ME LOOK TOO FLAKY.
THIS MAKES ME LOOK RESPONSIBLE. END OF AN ERA. YEAH.
WHEN I HEAR ABOUT LARGE LOCAL TAX BREAKS FOR BIG, PROFITABLE CORPORATIONS, I SAY, "WHY GIVE THEM A BREAK?"
BUT UNLESS WE ATTRACT NEW BUSINESS TO THIS DISTRICT AND EXPAND OUR TAX BASE,
THERE WON'T BE A NEW SENIOR CITIZEN CENTER FOR YOU. THERE WON'T BE A MEALS ON WHEELS PROGRAM.
THERE WON'T BE AN INVALID TRANSPORTATION PROGRAM. JOHN PALMERI? YEAH?
TIM GARRITY. I'M WITH PETER. HOW'D YOU KNOW WHO I WAS? PETE DESCRIBED YOU.
AND YOU'RE THE ONLY OTHER PERSON HERE WHO CAN WALK OUT UNASSISTED. LOOKS GOOD, DOESN'T HE?
LIKE A FUCKING KENNEDY EXCEPT FOR THE NOTES. 86 THE NOTES. GET HIM TO MEMORIZE. JOHN, I WANTED TO GO OVER SOME STRATEGY WITH YOU.
SURE. GET IN.
PETE AND I FEEL NOW THAT HE'S A CANDIDATE, EVERYTHING SHOULD GO THROUGH ME-- REQUESTS, ADVICE, MONEY.
MM-HMM. SOUNDS GOOD. YOU TICKLISH? WHAT DO YOU MEAN? SOME GUYS ARE TICKLISH.
COME ON, LET'S GO.
HE'S CHERRY, JOHN. WHAT'S GOING ON? EVERYBODY'S CAREFUL, EVERYBODY'S HAPPY. DIDN'T JUSTICE TEACH YOU THAT?
I'M NOT THERE ANYMORE. I WORK FOR PETER NOW. YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT'S BRED IN THE BONE.
PLEASE ACCEPT MY APOLOGIES. BUT WILL YOU STILL RESPECT ME IN THE MORNING?
SPEAK TO ME.
IT IS A CRIME THAT PEOPLE ARE LIVING LIKE THAT. I WANT TO FIND THE SUPERINTENDENT,
THE LANDLORDS, AND I WANT SOME ANSWERS. HOW WOULD YOU DO THAT?
GIVE ME A MOMENT. CAN I STEAL HIM FOR A SECOND? ONE OF PALMERI'S HOLDING COMPANIES OWNS THIS PROPERTY.
WHAT? GOT TO BACK OFF ON YOUR SPEECH. JESUS CHRIST. WHAT AM I GOING TO SAY?
JUST GIVE THEM SOME OF THAT "TOMORROW'S LOOKING GOOD" BOILER PLATE, AND THAT'S IT.
HOW ARE YOU HOLDING UP? FINE. YEAH? YOU WERE PRETTY TIGHT WITH BURTON.
IT'S GOT TO BE ROUGH. MY OLD MAN HAD A SAYING-- THAT FRIENDSHIP IS LIKE THE MORNING DEW.
IT SETTLES ON SOME ROSES, AND IT SETTLES ON SOME DOG SHIT. YOU ACTIVATE RECORD BY PRESSING THE FIRST BUTTON.
IT'S ALSO YOUR MIKE. A MICROCASSETTE RECORDER'S SEWN INTO THE SHOULDER PAD. HE HAS A SCANNER.
FIBER OPTICS. DOESN'T REGISTER.
BOND. JAMES BOND.

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1:23:18

WHAT'S THAT? ONE OF THE NEW TRICKS I'M LEARNING. HELPS ME SEE HOW THINGS REALLY ARE

1:23:25

INSTEAD OF HOW I WISH THEY WERE. AND WHAT DO YOU SEE?

1:23:31

I SEE HOW PETER GETS A HOLD ON PEOPLE.

1:23:37

HE'S SO GOOD AT TELLING YOU WHAT YOU WANT TO HEAR. HOW MUCH WE WANT TO BELIEVE EVERYTHING HE SAYS

1:23:45

BECAUSE OF THAT. IT'S VERY POWERFUL. THAT'S NOT JUST PETER. THAT'S POLITICIANS.

1:23:51

THE SUCCESSFUL ONES, ANYWAY. CAN'T CONDEMN THEM. IT'S THE NATURE OF THE BEAST. DON'T CONDEMN HIM FOR WHAT HE DID TO MY FATHER?

1:23:57

HE DIDN'T BREAK ANY LAW ANY MORE THAN YOUR FATHER DID BY LETTING HIM GET AWAY WITH IT. IT'S A SYSTEM THAT'S WORKED FOR OVER 200 YEARS, REMEMBER?

1:24:07

I THINK HE HAD SOMETHING TO DO WITH SETTING YOU UP WITH THAT REPORTER. HE DIDN'T. THE FINDINGS WERE CONCLUSIVE.

1:29:48

THIS STUFF'S A LOT MORE EXPENSIVE NOW THAN IT WAS IN 1983.

1:29:57

WE MAY NOT ALWAYS GET WHAT WE WANT, WE MAY NOT ALWAYS GET WHAT WE NEED,

1:30:02

JUST SO'S WE DON'T GET WHAT WE DESERVE. CONGRATULATIONS, CONGRESSMAN.

1:30:08

THANKS, BROTHER. [TELEPHONE RINGS]

1:30:13

[RING] YEAH?

1:30:19

NO, NO. HEY, I APPRECIATE IT. REALLY.

1:30:24

ALL RIGHT. GIVE ME 15 MINUTES.

1:30:34

WHERE THE HELL'S PALMERI? YEAH, I THOUGHT HE'D BE HERE WATCHING HIS RACE HORSE COME IN.

1:30:39

HE'S GOING AWAY TOMORROW. MAYBE HE'S DECIDING WHICH HUNDRED SUITS TO TAKE. AND SHOES TO MATCH.

1:34:43

GARRITY! FBI! GET OUT!

1:35:07

I'M SORRY WH-WHAT I DID TO YOU. I DIDN'T HAVE ANY CHOICE.

1:35:12

OF COURSE YOU DID. NO, MAN. I GOT INSTINCT AND A FEW MOVES. CHOICE IS FOR GUYS LIKE YOU.

1:35:17

DIANA MARRIED YOU... AND YOU CHOSE TO MAKE HER REGRET IT WITH EVERYTHING THAT YOU HAD.

1:35:26

STILES TOOK YOU UNDER HIS WING, AND YOU CHOSE TO BLACKMAIL HIM.

1:35:32

I WAS YOUR FRIEND... AND YOU CHOSE TO BETRAY ME.

1:35:43

YOU DID THIS TO YOURSELF.

1:35:52

WHY?

1:36:13

I NEEDED MORE THAN YOU WERE ABLE TO GIVE. YOU OR DIANA OR ANY ONE PERSON.

1:36:24

THEY SAY GREAT MEN ARE EMBRACED BY THOUSANDS OF STRANGERS. I WANT TO BE GREAT.

1:36:33

SO YOU SACRIFICE THE FEW TO REACH THE MANY.

1:36:45

THEY BELIEVE IN ME DOWN THERE... AND YOU CAN'T TAKE THAT AWAY.

1:36:54

THEY WON'T LET YOU.

1:37:34

THANK YOU. THANK YOU.

1:37:39

YOU KNOW... FOR THE PAST COUPLE OF MONTHS, I'VE BEEN SAYING, "TOMORROW'S LOOKING GOOD."

1:37:49

I'LL TELL YOU A SECRET. TONIGHT'S FEELING GREAT.

1:37:54

FIRST OF ALL, I WANT TO THANK MY CAMPAIGN FAMILY.

1:37:59

BECAUSE OF YOUR FANTASTIC DEDICATION AND ENERGY, WE'RE HERE TONIGHT.

1:46:01

WE'LL MAKE IT AN ONGOING BET. YOU KNOW THE OLD SAYING IN WASHINGTON, TIM.

1:46:08

ONLY TWO THINGS CAN TRULY WRECK A MAN'S POLITICAL CAREER-- GETTING CAUGHT WITH A LIVE BOY OR A DEAD GIRL.

1:46:21

GOOD LUCK, PETE. SEE YOU AROUND CAMPUS, MAN.

explain "1:46:01 WE'LL MAKE IT AN ONGOING BET. YOU KNOW THE OLD SAYING IN WASHINGTON, TIM. 1:46:08 ONLY TWO THINGS CAN TRULY WRECK A MAN'S POLITICAL CAREER-- GETTING CAUGHT WITH A LIVE BOY OR A DEAD GIRL.
ChatGPT said:
The quote:

“Only two things can truly wreck a man’s political career—getting caught with a live boy or a dead girl.”

is a darkly cynical political aphorism. It’s not originally from the speaker in your clip (likely from a film, TV show, or political satire), but rather a long-circulated saying in American political circles, often attributed (without confirmation) to Louisiana politician Edwin Edwards, who was known for his colorful, brazen style.

???? Meaning and Implications:

  1. “Live boy” → Implies a homosexual scandal, especially involving underage or non-consensual context, which was (and sometimes still is) politically explosive in conservative politics.

  2. “Dead girl” → Suggests involvement in a fatal scandal with a woman, such as an affair gone terribly wrong or suspicious death, like the infamous Chappaquiddick incident involving Senator Ted Kennedy.

  3. The implication → In the cynical view of politics, almost any corruption, hypocrisy, or moral failing can be spun or survived, except for a scandal involving sexual misconduct (especially taboo) or death. These are seen as career-ending.

  4. Tone → The phrase is deliberately crude, jaded, and satirical. It’s used not to endorse such thinking, but to mock how politicians often escape accountability unless caught in extreme situations.

?? Important Note:

  • This saying reflects political cynicism, not ethical standards.

  • It's meant to be provocative — a commentary on how scandal, not principle, often drives political fallout.

  • It’s also been criticized for its flippant treatment of real victims, especially in the way it reduces serious crimes to political consequences.

Would you like this analyzed as a cultural artifact, or contextualized in a broader commentary on political accountability and public perception?

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