your worst enemy is the person you spend your adult life with

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Clip extracted from the Diary of a CEO podcast, hosted by Steven Bartlett, interviewing Dr.Gad Saad, behavior expert. I encourage you to go watch the full interview.

https://youtube.com/shorts/F18i_VbSidQ?si=50gUd8mCH4-Ditwa?

My Father used to always say, “Monica, don’t ever let anyone take from you your most valuable possession—your soul. The people who are able to hurt us the most—physically, spiritually, and mentally—are the people we allow closest to us.
@Flee-h6c

1 month ago

 @declinenutruster6221 husband becomes her covering or guardian like her father and mother, i.e., second family. You get the other point. 
@choyboy8989

1 month ago

Jealousy is a very dangerous emotion. Mix that with alcohol or drugs or poor mental health, and it becomes deadly.
@trixielettieri6416

2 weeks ago

Absolutely… without hesitation... I camp solo and women always ask if I’m scared and what I use for security, and I ask them if they are married or have a partner… and if so are they scared and what do they use for security? because they are 80% more likely to be assaulted in their home than I am out in the desert alone… I am not the one in danger…
@AprilLuna1111

1 month ago

I knew the answer before he said it. My ex was the one being unfaithful, and yes, he almost killed me a few times. I'm so grateful to be alive.

@number1angel66

1 month ago

This is so true. My ex-husband used to beat me when we returned home from shopping if a guy even stood too close to me in a store.  He would intentionally walk away, leaving me alone in isles just to see if men would talk to me. It was outrageous. He stalked me for ten years after the divorce. I had two consecutive restraining orders, not that it made a difference. He may still be stalking me for all I know. I've overcome the fear but I still have weapons hidden around my home. Women should do research on narcissism, it may save your life. Blessings of love, light and protection for all. @EvelynMadih-h3y

4 weeks ago

every woman knows it is their male partner....but they are too afraid to say it. And we have ALL been accused of cheating wrongly by men. Their insecurities are our burdens

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@danaordonez1002

1 month ago

My husband almost unalive me because he was having an affair and didn't want me to find out, but I did honestly I am glad I survived and never saw them again I suffered so much, but now God heal my heart and I was able to forgive and move on@jshshh1041

1 month ago

A person you don't give a shit about can push you to a certain limit. A person who you've given your heart to? They can literally change you

I have always advised my children and my friends that your worst enemy is the person you spend your adult life with, especially if you tell him or her everything about yourself.
@GWzzrd

1 month ago

@SA-ey6nt  except that he said the man behaves like this when his wife has cheated on him. So, the most dangerous person for the man IS also his wife. She had the power to completely destroy his life.@SA-ey6nt

1 month ago

 @GWzzrd  Girl Of course you're thinking about your feelings, when the theme is actual murder. Now, you missed the part of SUSPECTED or realized infidelity, but actually the part that he isn't saying (you can check it), is most fatalities happen when the wman tries or successfully leaves - more than 80 percent of fatalities


@Crownofglory09

1 month ago

Correct....

People believe family dynamics is the safest place to be, but in a real sense, it's the most dangerous place. You must tread with caution.
 
@JarrydMckenzie-nf8jt

1 month ago

The most dangerous person she will ever meet is also the most loving. It's her father. There's nothing more dangerous than a man with a hurt daughter.
 
Also close relation to the statistic that most car accidents happen within ten miles of the home. It's where most people do most of their driving. You're going to be spending a lot of time with your spouse. It's a lot of opportunity for something to go wrong. A good comparison is being in a burning building vs smoking a pack of cigarettes everyday.
 
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