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还记得几年前,有一次我的经理在所有人面前夸奖我超额完成了工作任务……但她根本不知道,我因此生病了!这样的生活方式是不可持续的。健康是一种无价的财富 几周后,我递交了辞呈,为自己鼓掌,因为我对有害的工作环境说了“不要” 最近我又想起了这件事……我再次更换了工作环境。如果再遇到类似的情况,我还会这样做,因为我们的健康是无价的!
在职场打拼了三十多年、追求过度成就后,我的免疫系统终于发出了“够了”的信号,开始“叛变”了!
现在,我专注于自己的身体健康 并一次又一次为自己鼓掌
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"Good health is a commodity" highlights how vital yet finite and valuable health is, much like any prized resource. Here's how this perspective applies to specific examples:
1. Workplace Burnout and Overachievement
- Overachieving in a toxic work environment, as in your case, can lead to physical and mental exhaustion. For example, meeting relentless deadlines or enduring long hours without rest often results in stress-related illnesses like migraines, insomnia, or even autoimmune disorders.
- These outcomes show that prioritizing productivity over health “spends” this finite resource, just like depleting a limited commodity.
2. Ignoring Health for External Rewards
- Many professionals neglect their health for accolades or promotions. For instance, someone might skip meals or over-caffeinate to finish a project, only to face gastritis or chronic fatigue later.
- Like spending money unwisely, this exchange underscores the real “cost” of achievements earned at the expense of well-being.
3. Long-Term Consequences of Overexertion
- Over decades, continuous overwork can weaken the immune system, leading to long-term health challenges like heart disease or diabetes.
- This parallels how poor management of natural resources leads to depletion and systemic collapse. Good health requires careful “investment” in rest, nutrition, and balance.
4. Preventive Measures as “Investments”
- Making deliberate choices, like changing toxic work environments or focusing on self-care, mirrors wise financial planning. Taking breaks, regular exercise, and seeking supportive environments are ways to protect and grow the “commodity” of good health.
Conclusion: Treating health as a precious and finite commodity reminds us to use it wisely and invest in its maintenance rather than depleting it for short-term gains. Would you like further elaboration on specific preventive strategies or practices?
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A toxic work environment is one where the workplace culture, practices, or relationships consistently harm employees' mental, emotional, or physical well-being. It often leads to stress, burnout, dissatisfaction, and even health problems. Here are key characteristics of such environments:
1. Poor Leadership and Management
- Micromanagement or Neglect: Managers who excessively control every detail or fail to provide guidance create unnecessary stress.
- Lack of Transparency: Withholding information or inconsistent communication breeds mistrust.
- Unrealistic Expectations: Expecting employees to work excessively long hours or achieve unattainable goals can push them to their limits.
2. Toxic Relationships
- Bullying or Harassment: Verbal abuse, intimidation, or discrimination from colleagues or supervisors creates a hostile atmosphere.
- Cliques and Favoritism: Unequal treatment based on favoritism divides teams and fosters resentment.
- Lack of Respect: Dismissing opinions, ideas, or contributions undermines morale and mutual respect.
3. Negative Workplace Culture
- Excessive Competition: Pitting employees against each other fosters unhealthy rivalries rather than collaboration.
- Fear-Based Culture: Threats, punishments, or public shaming create anxiety and hinder creativity.
- Neglect of Work-Life Balance: Discouraging time off, expecting constant availability, or failing to respect boundaries can harm mental and physical health.
4. Unfair Policies or Practices
- Inequitable Compensation: Underpaying employees or failing to recognize their contributions devalues their work.
- No Room for Growth: Stagnation or lack of opportunities for advancement demotivates employees.
- High Turnover Rates: A revolving door of employees often signals deeper systemic issues.
5. Lack of Support and Recognition
- No Feedback or Acknowledgment: Failing to appreciate hard work or provide constructive criticism leaves employees feeling undervalued.
- Minimal Resources: Insufficient tools, training, or staffing makes it difficult to meet expectations.
- Ignoring Employee Well-Being: Overlooking mental health, neglecting flexibility, or dismissing concerns shows a lack of care.
Impact of Toxic Work Environments
Employees often experience:
- Mental health issues: Anxiety, depression, or burnout.
- Physical health issues: Chronic stress, weakened immunity, or exhaustion.
- Career setbacks: Loss of confidence or decreased productivity.
Conclusion: Toxic workplaces prioritize short-term results over employee well-being, resulting in high costs for individuals and organizations. Creating healthy work environments requires empathy, fairness, and clear communication. Would you like advice on addressing such environments or improving workplace dynamics?
I’m 23, and this isn’t the first time I’ve found myself in a hospital bed because I pushed my body too far. We don’t talk about it enough, but the culture of ‘hustle till you drop’ is dangerous, especially for people our age, trying to prove ourselves.
I’ve learned the hard way that promotions, KPIs, and perfect CVs mean nothing if you’re risking your health. Chronic pain, surgeries, and burnout are real, and nothing is worth sacrificing your well-being.
To employees, this is your reminder to listen to your body. Rest isn’t lazy—it’s survival. Growth isn’t just about increasing your output; it’s also about knowing when to step back. Take your breaks. Say no when you’re overwhelmed. Build a career that respects your humanity, not one that destroys it.
To managers and leaders, you set the tone! If you glorify overwork, your teams will feel forced to follow, even at the cost of their health. Encourage balance. Normalize rest. Lead with empathy, not just deadlines. The well-being of your team is not a “soft skill” or a secondary concern; it’s the backbone of long-term success. Healthy employees are productive employees.
If you’re in your early 20s and feeling like you’re behind: you’re not. You’re living. Slow down, you don’t have to rush. The right opportunities will come, and you’ll enjoy them so much more if you’re healthy and happy when they do.
Gregg Stefanek, DO • 2nd
I am a family physician/medical director/health care consultant dedicated to helping individuals and organizations embrace the responsibility to be better than they used to beThis wasn’t always the case. I use to think it was some kind of badge of honor to get from point A to point B as fast as I could. Sammy Hagar and I both couldn’t drive 55.
So, I did the math. If I have 60 miles to go, I can get there 6 minutes quicker if I average 80 mph versus 70.
Funny as I was typing, I almost said I could save 6 minutes if I drove 10 mph faster
But what am I saving?
So instead of looking at the 6 minutes I “lost” because I drove slower, I look at the 6 minutes I gained:
More time to talk to my fellow passengers.
More time to listen to my podcasts
More time to listen to my classic rock and roll
More time to appreciate my surroundings, to just be present
Freedom from having to worry about getting a ticket
Oh yeah, it probably is a little safer too
But I don’t drive slower because of safety reasons. I am just not in as much of a hurry anymore. And it’s a beautiful place to be.
And I can always leave 6 minutes earlier
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The Chronic Edge: Your catalyst for business analysis Identifying hidden losses with cost-effective solutions giving you the EDGE!I’ve been working plus Christmas with something happening everyday for almost two weeks.
The body this morning felt like Unicron with the autobots blowing things up inside me (showing my age ) but I’m in the car off to the Lakes, pretending I just needed an energy drink and some meds while the red alert announcesments are running through my head.
The response, “We are late” ?
Employers can be educated, trained or you can change roles or jobs, unfortunately that can’t be the same at home.
Cancel the entire event because of you or push through it but be late, I’ll be in pain either way, so better make the best of it.
I hope everything goes smoothly and you have an amazing 2025, following ?
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Clinical Psychologist, Board Certified Behavior Analyst, Licensed Mental Health Counselor in Fl, Licensed Behavior Analyst, Published Author.I’m now concentrating on my physical wellbeing I get to applaud myself over and over again
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Digital MarketerMandeep Bryant • 3rd+
Digital Project ManagerDeeply saddened to read what you have been going through. Our last chat was sheer rejoicing in how beautiful you looked as you donated half of your hair towards a good cause.
Thank you for this reminder that even the strongest among us need moments to step back and rest, so rest up and come back more beautiful and radiant as ever!
Work can replace us, but our families never can
Psalm 46:10 says, “Be still, and know that I am God.” Sometimes, the greatest healing comes when we allow ourselves to rest in that stillness, trusting that God is at work even when we pause.
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Digital MarketerMandeep you angel!
Your words brought so much comfort to me, and the fact that you remember our last conversation says a lot, thank you for always being so thoughtful and kind.
You’re absolutely right, work can replace us, but our families and health are priceless. I’m learning to take a step back and prioritize what really matters, and your words remind me to be gentle with myself. Thank you for your love and support, it truly means the world to me.
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You can't fight cancer without hope. • LuxSpei.org • (Light of Hope)Now, I deal with fighting cancer.
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Technical Director at Nemetos TanasukTala, I want you to know that your courage are inspiring. Please continue to take care of yourself and know that your health and happiness are what truly matter.
Wishing you a speedy recovery and much strength.
Tala TanbouzAuthor
Digital MarketerYou’re the best AJ, thank you for the continuous support since we met not just today!
I’m happy to see that my message resonated with you and others. Sometimes it’s difficult to determine whether sharing your thoughts is impactful or not, but the kind words I’ve seen remind me why it’s so important to start these conversations.