You Don\'t Need More Friends but allied

@macmachine

3 days ago

Real friends know they can't come with you... and are wise enough to set you free :  that's just life.

@SecretDeathWish

7 days ago

The closer I got to change, the more people tried to hold me back.

 

@ashleyzinn7795

21 hours ago

I've got 2 friends/allies that have turned into a part of my family. My family has never tried to hold me back, even though success, heartaches, trials, or tribulations. When I was a little younger, I had a bunch of girlfriends that I thought would be there for me always..that number over time got to two. And they are my ride or die. You are very correct...we need allies??

 

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@JodiMoss-k5v

1 day ago

It's amazing that necessity is the mother of invention. Love this dad's creativity to get the kiddos out and let them learn how to have fun. For some, that really is a gift! Way to go, Dad!

 

 

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@anastasiaelendu3912

1 day ago

ON POINT!!!

She hit the nail directly on the head, no beating around the bush.

Being open minded is not about agreeing with everything or every idea but see, reasoning and understanding different ideas, perspectives and mindsets, and the reason behind them is the factual meaning of Open Mindedness.

Most times when we judge the actions of our close ones or even those around us, we only tend to see from our own perspective and reasoning forgetting we all are different.

And when it comes down to personal growth, we all are responsible for ourselves no matter what anyone says or feels, it won't change the fact that the responsibility is mainly ours (others are just to assist you), and only when we fulfill this responsibility appropriately that we can have healthy relationships with our love ones and others.

 

 

 

 

@McD-j5r

2 days ago (edited)

Very true. It hurts everybody, but the distancing still happens. I reached the same conclusion: I need allies. Friends experience pain when they anticipate distancing, which initiates the messy phase. Normally, in my experience, you just can’t do much.

 

 

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@DMillerFlorida

3 days ago

The part in between is the dead zone. You have to keep going because if you don't, you'll die. Meaning, your spirit.

You won't recognize it.  You can't see the future in this area, because you're rearranging your wires to fit a new pattern... And you are still grappling with the safety of the past comfort.

 

 

@peterhoatson

3 days ago

Because it shows them what progress they haven't made themselves and that can be confronting

 

 

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@shilpajagadeeshappa9962

1 day ago

Lesson: It happens so have the habit of walking away from people and places and find allies who support you and don’t look back because when you are closer to top of hill ( success) if u look back you will be scared and it imbalances your next move and these self architected paths are always guided by higher energies ! Keep going

 

@LeNoir2411

3 days ago

Walk away, that's what i did and it ruined a decade of friendship. Was i heartbroken, yes. Do i regret it, not at all in fact I'm glad i walked away because if i hadn't, i wouldn't grow and change. I like myself rn better than i was before i walked away. I felt stuck because my dear ex best friend was afraid of changes, she wanted to stay the same but i wanted to move forward so we parted ways. Had to. The friends I've got right now are at the same wavelength as me, we nurture each other, we cheer and support each other even though it means something will change in the future.