4 .You’ve lost， to some degree, your own identity and your confidence in marriage.
从心理上，让我引用一下一个美国学者，Andra Brosh, PhD, 的分析：
“The pain of divorce is often unbearable. The experience can be so awful that you wonder whether it would have been easier to stay married or even to be dealing with some other horrific life event like death. The depth of pain is often surprising, particularly when you know you don’t want to be married anymore.
What many people forget is that divorce is just a fancy word masking what is truly a broken attachment between two people. Divorce is more than separating assets and belongings. It’s the severing of a very strong bond founded on deep feelings of dependency and need. Believe it or not, you developed an attachment to your partner over the course of dating and marriage that connected you on an emotional and physiological level beyond what you realized. You may be creating more suffering for yourself by resisting what you are feeling or telling yourself that you are overreacting.Recognize that the end of your marriage represents much more for you than you may realize.”
4 .You’ve lost， to some degree, your own identity and your confidence in marriage.
从心理上，让我引用一下一个美国学者，Andra Brosh, PhD, 的分析：
“The pain of divorce is often unbearable. The experience can be so awful that you wonder whether it would have been easier to stay married or even to be dealing with some other horrific life event like death. The depth of pain is often surprising, particularly when you know you don’t want to be married anymore.
What many people forget is that divorce is just a fancy word masking what is truly a broken attachment between two people. Divorce is more than separating assets and belongings. It’s the severing of a very strong bond founded on deep feelings of dependency and need. Believe it or not, you developed an attachment to your partner over the course of dating and marriage that connected you on an emotional and physiological level beyond what you realized. You may be creating more suffering for yourself by resisting what you are feeling or telling yourself that you are overreacting.Recognize that the end of your marriage represents much more for you than you may realize.”
