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三月琐记- 出差 (w English)

暖冬cool夏 (2024-03-31 16:54:18) 评论 (58)

三月的最后一天是个周日,窗外,雨又在不停敲打着屋檐和窗棂。今天早上的锻炼跳舞也因着下雨被取消。在这个常年干旱之地,雨是上苍的恩赐。只是今年的雨水太多了,多到时不时有flood warnings, 多到山花至今不成气候,像是躲藏着,不肯绽放。

关在家里,在温度不到60度的雨天,被窝就成了好去处。打开床头灯,听着雨声,拿起手机,来记一下三月吧。网友小C(cxyz) 说,“清汤寡水的流水账后面,是层层累累的绵长岁月”。然也,就此也写下几笔我的三月。

I.  三月初得知某人有机会去离女儿不远的城市出差,我便心里开始准备起来。想着正好可以把从国内买给她的羊绒、羊毛衫,零食(小核桃、话梅,花生芝麻糖),桂花蜜(新鲜桂花酿在白糖里,特意问亲戚要来的),淘宝上买来的各色编织用的毛线带给她;又开始关心起微信群里兜售的商品 -- 有她爱吃商店里没有卖的甘蔗、冰糖葫芦。临行前,买来甘蔗,菠萝(店里的),花了好大力削去甘蔗皮,菠萝皮,切好,装在新买的容器里。头天晚上又烤了点牛排(剔去骨头),做了一小盒排骨,外加Costco最爱吃的巧克力,塞了满满一小箱。冰糖葫芦因为怕化,头一天下午买了放进了freezer,不时提醒自己,走的那天早晨不要忘了塞进箱子。(自上次纽约之行第一次在美国吃到冰糖葫芦,发掘了新爱好,恰逢微信群里有人在卖)。

3/10早7:45 的飞机。那日正逢夏令时开始日,睡得本来就晚了,早上5:30闹钟闹醒,一算昨晚自己只睡了三个半小时。挣扎着起来给某人准备早餐,懵懵懂懂中打破一只玻璃杯,某人也是下楼后一摸裤子口袋,钱包不见了。好一阵忙乱。待找到钱包,原本约定打Uber去机场的,迫于时间(Uber要等13分钟),也改成让我直接送了。好在是local的机场。

某人最不喜欢出差。可这次借机可以去看一眼女儿,就不再抱怨。飞机抵达后,他又忙着租车,见到女儿后,一下午带着她逛街买东西(女儿没车),晚上两人一起吃了个饭。等一切落定,晚上送走女儿后,才得空电话向我汇报见到女儿的情景。

爱总是付出,爱也是卑微的。

II. 3/5晚收到在南京读研时认识的一个朋友的邮件。联系后才知,二十多年没有联系的她,因着生活的变化从科州搬到了我附近的一个城市。

人生何处不相逢!

3/14日晚某人出差回来,3/16晚请他们夫妻俩来家吃饭 -- 打火锅。虽然在学校时跟她接触并不太多,但是再相见,依然一见如故。

3/29日周五,朋友回请我们去她家吃晚饭。新家坐落在新开发的住宅区,他们半年前购置的,非常干净宽敞亮堂,布置得极其温馨有情调。我们吃着饭聊着天,意外聊到了我在这里认识了二十多年的老朋友,居然和她的表哥 -- 一个我读研时很close的朋友,我是通过她表哥认识她的 -- 是中学同学。

这世界太小。

III. 3/27星期三新的办公楼Open House.员工们聚集一堂,公司提供午饭-- sandwich和salad, 期间也见到了新的CEO。下午2:30开会,第一次面见从Michigan飞过来的CFO, 一个上海女子,讲一口非常流利非常棒的英语。出人意料的是,这位才来三个月的CFO当场宣布自己决定退休,4/30是她的最后一天。Alas!

 

今年的税做的一个头两个大,用Turbotax做,居然发现倒入W2后,软件上显示的federal withholding给纸上的W2不一样。上网查了查,也有人有过类似的经验。软件问题吗?

三月底,枇杷已经泛黄。今年雨水多,枇杷似乎大个些,只是不知是不是一如往年一样香甜? 庆幸的是,今年不用跟松鼠老鼠战天斗地了,虽然还是有枇杷核残留在墙头架上,只是我已经放宽了心态:)。

隔着纱窗拍的枇杷:

 

又是一年!转眼四月,纪念流逝的时光和岁月,还有时光里的人和物!

 

3/15/2024

It was 6:15 am when we rushed out of the garage heading to the local airport for the &:45 flight. It's a business trip but he had to cancel Urber as the waiting time was 13 minutes. On the first day of time changing, as the clock was set an hour earlier, 6:15 am is 5:15 am. Having had only 3.5 hours sleep the night before, I tried to stay fresh after a hectic morning of cooking and packing for our daughter.

It was dark outside. Illuminted in the front and around were our car's headlights and the dim streetlights. The community was asleep as the city outside. The traffic lights mostly green, were brighter in the dark, with a halo, piercing through the thinly veiled morning fog. We were both quiet in the car, after a hectic morning of final packing and his search for his wallet in the last minutes.

He never likes business trip, for all the hassles and uneasiness of travel. Em still remembers his last business trip at the end of January, when he lamented over the inconvenience of living at a hotel and eating at a restaurant added on top of busier schedule. This time, he did not complain, as the city he would go is only half an hour drive from where J lives. "God has given us a chance to see her again." Em has been preparing the luggage, filling it with the stuff she recently bought from China for J. As the day drew close, she bought 8 pounds of fresh sugarcanes, peeled, cut and sealed neartly in a Ziplock bag. And two packs of Tanghulu from Wechat vendor, which she froze in the freezer. (unfinished)

3/24日跳舞回来,开车经过公园的大草坪,从车上匆匆拍的一景。黄花开了一地,只是尚不见去年(3/5/2023)在此盛开的鲁冰花?

接连两天壳出的双黄蛋: