I notice that many of those who are making derisive comments on the behaviors of some family members of the Chinese victims are the same bunch just a few days ago chanting human right above all else and right to violent protest in democracy in support of the occupation of Taiwan's legislative house by the students. Just an observation.
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Even tossing aside the allegations that this Sarah Bajc is an imposter or a hired hand, I think it is very callous for her to make her comments about the behaviors other Chinese victims' families members. Besides, in what way did or could those Chinese hinder the investigation?
she commenting on the sunflower farce? although i understand her frustration, she only embarrassed herself by going off fellow victims and tossing up a sweeping judgment of the 'tantrum-throwing' chinese, where her obnoxious pontification reeks to high heaven. actually watched one of her interviews given to cnn where she pleaded with imaginary hijackers to spare passengers as a self-anointed spokeperson for the families. maybe her willingness to dupe herself into thinking that everybody is still alive is what's keeping her so calm and composed. or she is just jelly that loud complaints are getting all the media attention and wants to portray herself as the voice of reason. even news outlets here are sympathetic to the fact that most chinese families only have one child and hence the desperation for information which sometimes borders on harassment. she should have the decency to just grieve and let grieve
Agree! Besides, she is just a girl friend, not really related. If her only daughter or son was in the air plane with all her grandkids, then she had the right to make any comments.
悲剧已发生，再痛苦也不能扭转现时，痛苦出人命或抑郁或生病都不值。生活要继续，希望他们尽快走出阴影并思想人生归宿。相信马国会尽力陪偿。失去亲人就是撕裂，當天災人禍來臨，人靠自己很難扛住，人需要精神支柱。
May strength and peace come to their heart.
弟兄 发表评论于
人的基本要素是勇敢和自律
soft-heart 发表评论于
Yu2013:
You don't seem to know the critical difference between husband/wife and boyfriend/girlfriend. Learn a little bit more English, then their custom. Pretending to know everything is a reflection of ignorance—one with underdeveloped brain.
这篇文章说来源是south morning post, 都点south morning post那篇文章，根本没有这些发言。
基本可以说是假的，而且多半不是中国人就是马来人杜撰的。
铁钉 发表评论于
闹了有啥用？能早点找到飞机？
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yu2013
Where is your common sense? First, most countries in connection with this tragedy including US and Malaysia have concluded that the plane crash is most likely the result of suicide or terrorism. Secondly, does it really matter to victims’ families the differences in detail circumstances between this and 911? Both involved innocent deaths resulted from wilful and wanton acts of deranged individuals, not accidents. Their anger and frustrations are understandable owing to the circumstance of the plane crash. Obviously, the confused and misleading manners with which Malaysian government had conducted itself in handling this crisis only added fuel to the already pent up frustration of the victims’ relatives.
einsamdog 发表评论于
请大家去看看
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You2013
>>In contrary, this situation that you described actually happening in China.
Do you mind to back up your statement here? What makes you think that this happen more often in China than in US?
责备这个美国人Sarah Bajc的人,首先我怀疑这条新闻的真实性,从她在CNN的采访中的修养来看,她不象说这种话的人.If anything, she knows best how the Chinese feel. She shares their anger at Malaysian government's insensitivity and lack of transparency. 另外我想说,虽然她只是乘客的女朋友,但感觉他们之前情意深厚,准备结婚,各自有过家庭孩子,重组家庭,从Sarah的言谈和对男友Philip的介绍,觉得他们都是感情成熟的人,相互依赖信任.请大家在没有确切证明前不要被报道误导.其实无论这个美国人还是寻求真相的中国家属,给我的感觉都是有情有义的人,有感情也有理智,有自己的判断力,也很坚强.
Many people commenting here are really stupid. The American girl doesn't have to lose her dad or mom or child to qualify for making an observation. Losing a boyfriend can well be as hurting as losing any other beloved people, but this is beyond the point. I can make an observation and remark too, because my comments are not about how heart-broken the relatives can be or should be, with which I would not be able to sympathize fully as I didn't lose a loved one on that flight, but I can certainly give comments on the relatives' behavior. Stop fantasizing about any conspiracy theories, Malaysian government orchestrating the incident or concealing the truth, there is really no evidence or any rationale for it. I guess they could have done better in communicating to the world, but hello, for this kind of emergency and mysterious situation, I think they have done a decent job. It's very fair to say some of the relatives' behavior and the accusations they made, are not rational, disrespectful, and also ungrateful to all the people still working very hard to find out what really happened to their beloved ones.
重新打酱油 发表评论于
you are such an asshole and imbecile. "父母双亡是喜庆的事情", I am utterly disgusted by you and ashamed of being your same race. Jesus.
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princessonthepea 发表评论于 2014-04-04 09:40:05
美国人可能是部分因为信仰吧。知道自己的亲人去了天堂也只是早一步到达。迟早还会团聚。但中国人没有信仰的话，想像不到相聚的一刻。死亡就是毁灭。会是很绝望的吧。当然失去亲人和朋友等等是人都会难过。包括耶稣。看了Son of God耶稣在得知被犹大背叛的时候也是很伤心，也是会舍不得离开众人。已经习惯拥有的一切，失去是很让人难过的事情。需要时间去习惯，或者有些人因为缺乏信仰，一辈子都不甘心，都觉得上天不公。等等。总是会问，这样的事情为什么会发生在我身上。但，shit happens。没有任何人告诉过你你会有特权避过shit或灾难。所以我们只能感激还能活着，呼吸，甚至还有力气让你抱怨。如果你每天经过坟墓，就该想想自己愿意成为坟墓里的一分子还是继续活着，哪怕是抱怨着的活。所以喜欢menshark说的。珍惜所有。因为没有人说你是应得的。没有任何人知道自己能不能过到明天，甚至下一分钟。
forplaying 发表评论于
Boyfriend, aha? Let's talk about it if ur only child, fathter or mother was on it. bitch!
Zmylmr02 发表评论于
因为美国人的只是男朋友， 不是家属，能一样嘛？
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Many people commenting here are really stupid. The American girl doesn't have to lose her dad or mom or child to qualify for making an observation. Losing a boyfriend can well be as hurting as losing any other beloved people, but this is beyond the point. I can make an observation and remark too, because my comments are not about how heart-broken the relatives can be or should be, with which I would not be able to sympathize fully as I didn't lose a loved one on that flight, but I can certainly give comments on the relatives' behavior. Stop fantasizing about any conspiracy theories, Malaysian government orchestrating the incident or concealing the truth, there is really no evidence or any rationale for it. I guess they could have done better in communicating to the world, but hello, for this kind of emergency and mysterious situation, I think they have done a decent job. It's very fair to say some of the relatives' behavior and the accusations they made, are not rational, disrespectful, and also ungrateful to all the people still working very hard to find out what really happened to their beloved ones.
>>That is not true. This is your misconception portrayed by Hollywood movies. Americans are much more serious about their marriages. In US, a girl has many friends who are boys. That is different from boyfriends. In contrary, this situation that you described actually happening in China.
I can tell that your brain is really screwed up. Are you trying to draw conclusion from one or two of your acquaintances and then generalize it? There are a lot of American and Chinese are very serious about their marriages. However, on the whole, American has higher divorce rate than that of China, much higher.