袁茵撰文忆侯耀文:在他的身上我找到了三种感觉
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丈夫也许是侯耀文生命中扮演得最不成功的角色,用他自己的话说是"弱项"。在几次婚姻的起伏中,他亏欠了许多,也成熟了许多。他试图在事业与家庭间找到一种和谐的平衡,但是结果却总是不尽如人意。然而,我们仍旧能看到他的努力,从他对家人的体贴中,从他对自己的责备中,也从他对父亲的理解中。
也许对于他和父亲来说,"自私"是无奈的,遗憾是难免的,而无私和宽容又是必须的。他想在今后的日子里活得更加精彩,他要弥补生活的遗憾、延续人生的坦然,他要让每一位喜欢或者是曾经喜欢过他,甚至是憎恨过他的人意识到:侯耀文是一个负责任的人。
在他身上我找到父亲、哥哥、情人三种感觉
我和侯耀文相识在1990年,当时《特行警察》剧组要换女主角,演员王奎荣打电话把我叫了去。到剧组我见过导演后,有人就把男主角侯耀文找来了,导演问他:"这是替补的演员,你看行不行?"侯耀文当时特客气,只扫了我一眼,就说:"行,我看行。"
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不知为何我当时居然有一种亲切感,觉得我们似曾相识,因为他说话的声音特别像我父亲。有时心绪实在排解不开了,我就把自己的烦恼说给他听,他总能很理智地分析前因后果,告诉我应该怎样处理这些事情。当时他已离婚几年,他的言谈举止中有一种在男孩子身上永远找不到的细致入微和体贴。
快到春节了,剧组散了,他拉着我的手送我回家,说了挺多关心我的话。一种奇怪的感觉占据了我的脑海,我觉得他会惦记我。过了一段时间,经常是想着想着,他就来电话了,我不知道这是不是恋人之间的心心相印。再后来我们就恋爱了。
侯耀文给人的感觉很奇妙,在他的身上,我同时找到了父亲、哥哥、情人三种感觉。我当时根本无法分辨这种感觉好不好,只觉得这三种爱我都需要。
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