上周终于结网，嗯，算戒灌水，还是看了一些的。哈。 以前以子女网为己任，好像对待一份工作，然后发现越来越不值得这样付出，戒水之后更发现缺了我，这里照样过得很热闹，自己以前一厢情愿很可笑。老实说，有些ID 的帖子我很喜欢看，他们不来，意义确实少了很多，但是坛子的人总是不缺的，顶多是缺了某些人而已，如我。
我想到养孩子，其实我做不做大抵也是差不多的，做的时候只是自己一厢情愿，以为会对孩子好，但是事实是否如此，孩子是否领情，并非如自己所想的。想我这样自以为人生感悟很多的人，最难的是：忍住，不把自己的想法告诉孩子。我一直以来是练忍功的，昨天发现居然还是忍得不够。看电影把结局告诉别人是很无趣的，把人生的谜底告诉孩子也是很无趣的，甚至是残忍的。
节水期间研究了一下埃及的金字塔，本来看到一个问埃及的贴想答的，但是发现提问的人实在是太没诚意和礼节了。还发现一个网上talk show “这个历史挺靠谱” 挺有趣的，以前听说过这个人，一直没有关注，看了几集，从不同的角度回顾一下历史，还是很有意思。
最有意思的是这个哥们，估计不少人最近收到这个post 吧？ 有兴趣的可以Google一下全文。我奇怪这么个玩命的主，也没上HYP，是他没申请还是AO没看上？ 哈哈。
Michael Affronti
Director of Product at ThinkingPhones
Why I Wake Up at 4:22am
I was having lunch with some co-workers last week and the topic of morning routines came up. Everyone was sharing what time they woke up, how much they liked or hated it, and the things they did immediately after their feet hit the floor. The conversation turned to me with the question of “Someone told me you get up super early, is that true?”
I’m usually hesitant to tell people what time I wake up in the morning. Sharing the time usually causes whomever I’m speaking with to say something like - emphasis usually theirs - “Seriously? WHY WOULD YOU GET UP THAT EARLY?”
That happened last week. When I told my coworkers that I voluntarily wake up at 4:22am every weekday they looked at me like I was crazy. They shared that familiar sentiment of shock and curiosity, colored with the appropriate observation of “WHY!? We don’t have to be at work until 9:15am.”
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The Routine
4:22am - Alarm goes off.
I set if for 4:22am because I believe that waking on the quarter or half hour makes it easy to say “I’ll just sleep for another 15 (or 30) min.” Sleeping an extra eight minutes feels less useful to me and incentivizes me to get up. I take those next eight minutes to actually wake myself up, trying to do it slow and with some degree of mindfullness. I sit up, clear my head, throw some sweats on, and put my contacts in.
4:30am - Chore duties.
I feed the cats, clean their water bowls, scoop litter, etc. We have three cats so this actually takes a few minutes. I’ll brew some coffee in parallel and also fill a giant bottle of water to drink before class. I run the laundry (I wash and dry, Amy folds), and do a little light vacuuming (with a quiet dust vac - I save the Dyson for weekends).
4:40am - Learn.
I’m trying to re-learn Italian this year, so I spend 10min every morning using Duolingo to practice different lessons. I found that it wakes my brain up and gets my Duolingo score up for the day. I then try to practice another 10min sometime during the day.
4:50am - Read.
I spend about 15min reading tech news sites. I like to read articles on their actual sites so I use a Chrome bookmark folder called “Daily Industry Review” to auto-open these sites and then click through them. I try to read 1-2 articles per site and will use Hootsuite to schedule them into my Twitter and LinkedIn feeds. Long articles get sent to Pocket for reading on the train.
5:05am - House logistics
I use this time to update our budget, take care of our rental properties, and deal with any household logistics that I need to via email. This is mostly managing our budget in the excellent YouNeedABudget software, emailing tenants about any issues, and reviewing notes from homeowners meetings.
5:15am - Plan my day
I spend the last 10min of this part of the morning reviewing my calendar for the day. I move personal and work appointments around as needed and generally get my head around where I’m going to be and who I’m going to be meeting with.
5:25am - Get to the gym
Get ready for the gym and bike to Crossfit. I usually get there about 15min early to stretch and warmup.
6:00am - Workout / Blog
I workout at Crossfit South Brooklyn on Mondays, Wednesdays, and Thursdays during the week, and both Saturday and Sunday on the weekend. Tuesdays and Fridays are rest days in our gym’s Crossfit programming, and on those days I use this hour to work on my blog.
Back when I first joined Microsoft I was single and had no after-work responsibilities. So I used to go to the gym after work but then wouldn't get home until 11pm, all awake and energized from exercising. No bueno if you’re trying to get quality sleep (more on this later in the post). After a few months of dating Amy she asked me to not spend two hours per night at the gym instead of hanging out with her. A valid request, and my change to morning workouts happened pretty shortly thereafter. I quickly found I loved getting my workout in during the morning, a sentiment that has only gotten stronger since switching to Crossfit several years ago. It makes me feel energized, and I don’t have that nagging feeling of “damn it I have to go to the gym tonight” throughout the day.
7:15am - Cook, Eat, Triage
After I bike home from the gym I cook a quick breakfast for Amy and I. I’m usually starving since I work out fasted and will make (for myself) a four-egg scramble with bacon, sausage, and veggies, usually with yogurt and blueberries on the side. Yum. While I eat breakfast I take my first look at my work email, reviewing urgent threads and seeing what came in overnight. I keep Inbox Zero so anything in there is either new from the last 12 hours or returned by Boomerang.
8:30am - Head to work
Leave for work. I *love* the R train.
9:15am - Daily standup
Arrive at work for the daily scrum standup. Try to seize the day.
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我继续节水，没准下次发表个一月纪念啥的。LOL
