反骨式育儿,或是健康童年的打开方式
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养孩子不一定非要上演苦情戏,健康的童年不需要 " 自我牺牲式教育 "。
年龄最大的 90 后已经 30 岁出头了,印象里的年轻人,变成了 " 家长 ",还流行起 " 反骨式育儿 "。"
再甜不能甜孩子,再苦不能苦自己,穷养儿子穷养女,富养自己长身体。" 看似奇葩的口号,背后却藏着教育的真谛。
不久前,一家长发布短视频,刚递给儿子一个小芒果,转头自己拿了一个四五倍大的。当你正想感叹做父母不容易时,后半段视频就立马打消了你的多愁善感。安慰的话到了嘴边,却变成:"
当妈了也没必要 …… 吃这么大的吧。"" 就算当妈了也别 …… 噎着自己。"
以往有些家长节省吃穿用度、委屈自己,一句句 " 省吃俭用都是为了你 "" 辛苦工作都是为了你
",给孩子施加了沉重的压力。而现在," 我爱吃鱼头,肉都给孩子 ",已经成为老套的苦情戏,新一代家长的带娃方式,更该被鼓励。
" 自我牺牲式教育
",虽说是为孩子好,但也会让孩子感到愧疚、自责、自卑,活在压抑的童年里。当社会发展、物质条件得到改善后,家长也该改掉一味付出、委屈自己的教育方式了。
打破以孩子为主的思想束缚,家长一身反骨,才恰好为孩子撑起健康的童年。父母学会爱自己,才能给孩子传递好的情绪。儿童节来临之际,家长不如给自己买点好吃的吧。
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