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Is this true?

(2010-04-15 20:20:15) 下一个
如果两个人分手之后做了朋友……那说明我从来没有爱过你


如果两个人分手之后依旧可以做朋友做的事……那说明我想让你记住我


如果两个人分手之后我不再见你并大声说我恨你……那说明我不舍得离开你


如果两个人分手之后我们在彼此的世界消失了……那说明我真的爱你
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Appleflower 回复 悄悄话 回复落花飘零的评论:

Luo Hua,

I never keep in touch with any of my ex-bfs. The reason is very simple: I'm very busy and my free time is limited. I also have lots of friends, more than I have time for. They're just not important enough for me to keep in touch with. I need my time and energy for the new bf. ;) And if I have spare time, then family and good friends.
聆雪 回复 悄悄话 The Med-Pharm background of you just reminds me a story of a patient. This young man has a bright future and a lovely girl friend who was deeply in love with him. When they were about to start living a happy life as the legendary prince and princess, he was found to have a fatal disease. He didn't tell his girl about it, but started to abuse himself, over-drunk, iv drug, even had a affair with his girlfriend's girlfriend. His girlfriend was so mad at him and so sad with herself, and finally disappointed and lost patience and broke up with him. Soon after she disappeared from his world, he died, with a heart half broken and half satisfied, because he died with a secret in that heart: he abused him self, simply because he knew his girl friend would be stucked in the sorrow of losing her beloved, and never move on. He thought the only way for her to get out of the moaning and start a new life, is to eradiccate the love in him, so that he started to destroy his beautiful impression in her heart. He was finally successfully helped her to removed him from her world, in such an awlful way. Anyway, he was peacefully died.

Unfortunately he didn't know that later on, the girl was never successfully moving him out of her world, and never truly moved on, until the only final way to move him out of her world is to totally destroy her own world......
sunshadow 回复 悄悄话 完全同意。

其实我很多时候想装装做第一条,但是学不会做不来。
一程歌 回复 悄悄话 如果两个人分手之后做了朋友……那说明我喜欢你做的饭

如果两个人分手之后依旧可以做朋友做的事……那说明我喜欢你做的菜

如果两个人分手之后我不再见你并大声说我恨你……那说明我不喜欢你做的饭

如果两个人分手之后我们在彼此的世界消失了……那说明我不喜欢你做的菜

哈哈~~~~~~~~~ 一个吃货的看法:)))))))))))))
Amy热爱生活 回复 悄悄话 我同意第1,2 和第4条。但不能体会第3条。
第3条:“如果两个人分手之后我不再见你并大声说我恨你……那说明我不舍得离开你”
我的体会:如果大声说“我恨你”是真心的话,那么,我是先前爱上了不值得爱的人,且受到一些精神和感情上的伤害。如果大声说“我恨你”是故作姿态,讲反话,那我同意第3条。
聆雪 回复 悄悄话 如果两个人分手之后做了朋友而依旧可以做朋友做的事……那说明我从来没有爱过你却想让你记住我

如果两个人分手之后我们在彼此的世界消失了我不再见你并大声说我恨你……那说明我真的爱你又不舍得离开你……可是依然恨你,又怎么能算消失

如果我真的爱你而又不得不分手……那最后一件礼物只能是还你以自由,象小人鱼那样,自己变成泡沫,从爱人的世界真正消失。泡沫本无心,故亦无世界,由来无一物,何故可伤心。。。

然而这世上最大的伤心其实是无可伤心。。。所以还是在你的世界里把我埋进一个角落吧,让最后一刻的凄美永远定格,我不会搅扰你的自由,只是默默地做那只千百年前被封入琥珀的蜘蛛。。。
落花飘零 回复 悄悄话 回复流浪的人群的评论:
i guess only those two know, maybe they don;t even know...
落花飘零 回复 悄悄话 回复成长湖里的鱼的评论:
so complicated....
落花飘零 回复 悄悄话 回复Appleflower的评论:why do you disagree?:)
流浪的人群 回复 悄悄话 如果两个人分手之后做了夫妻做的事。。。那说明什么?
成长湖里的鱼 回复 悄悄话 could be true!

情天恨海,而又,覆水难收!
Appleflower 回复 悄悄话 I disagree.
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