记得高中的时候,我读过徐悲鸿跟他最后一个年轻太太的故事,那时很为他们师生恋感动。当然现在再看,就是个老男人垂涎年轻女学生的老掉牙情节而已。自己20多岁的时候,对年长的男人有好奇仰慕心理的,所以能理解年龄相差大的婚姻。等我30出头了,看同龄和更大年龄的男人,美好的滤镜就掉了。年纪差多少算差距大呢?那默多克和邓姐可是差了几十岁,那还是少见的[
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你是谁?这是很多哲学家和宗教要回答的问题。这本书的作者MICHAELSINGER悟出的是:你是你的意识。世界一直在那里,世上的事一直像流水样经过。人们通常被周围的事困扰,其实就像看电影一样,你跟着电影情节流泪,等电影结束灯亮了,你其实只是坐在椅子上。所以要学会用意识看自己。在你的意识随波逐流的时候适时回来找到自己。
Whoareyoureally?Youaretheconsciousness[
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我伯父是我父亲是同母异父而且差了十几岁的兄弟。从我记事起,大伯家就住在骑自行车要两小时的另一个镇。他家5个子女都比我大不少。在我小学中学的日子里,好多年过年的时候,我们都去喝喜酒。因为相对路远,去了后都会在他家住一到两晚上。所以去大伯父家的回忆就是热热闹闹吃吃喝喝,外加一群人冬天坐在靠墙朝阳的地方晒太阳聊天。比起现在亲戚聚会饭店吃饭[
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我妈电话里告诉我,她的叔叔去世了,她们几个侄子女要去灵堂穿重孝,因为她叔叔的两个孩子都先于老人去世了。由此想起了他的女儿,我妈的小堂妹,我的小阿姨,我小时候的玩伴。那时候我外婆家还没搬到城里,在乡下老屋,周围四五家都是我妈的亲叔叔或堂叔叔,总是热热闹闹的。我童年的夏天,都是在那里度过的。我是孙辈里最大的,小阿姨是她那辈最小的,她可[
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上次看了一次therapist没有继续下去,因为觉得跟美国人还是有文化差异。同时还约了个心理医生的APPOITNMENT,是华人女医生。我决定还是看她吧,一辈子总该看一次心理医生才算圆满。看心理医生都在网上了。医生笑眯眯的,很温和可亲。她说第一次,跟我聊聊,了解一下我的情况。她问起我的成长环境。我告诉她我家境贫寒,父母是文革婚姻,从小家里就是争吵不断,而且重[
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记录一下遇见的有趣的人。SANDY今年夏天过的70岁生日。她中等身材,不胖不瘦,原先金色的头发都灰白了,发量还不少,中分垂下来,很整洁。上身穿着几何图案靓丽的棉质长袖体恤衫,配牛仔裤,看上去像60出头的人。问她最近干什么,她两眼闪亮,说在学跳伞。REALLY?我吓了一跳,追问了一句。她确实在学跳伞。她说她12岁的时候就想跳伞,一直没成。今年70岁的时候,她对[
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JACK45岁,挺着个大肚子,有糖尿病高血压高血脂。今年年初在家突然胸痛,送急诊,诊断急性心梗,送得及时,放了支架,回家了。过几个月见到他,瘦了好多,倒是精神了,自我感觉不那么累了。看血里的指标,都很好。三高都控制好了。问他怎么做到的?他说他不乱吃东西了。他的医疗保险每两周给他送一箱食物:18个冷冻餐,水果蔬菜,BAR。他戒了可乐,喝水。保险还管[
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看到一个工作机会挺赶兴趣,试试申请一下吧,虽然不见得去。需要有推荐人。不能找现在的同事,把认识的同事同行扒拉一遍,觉得可以找十几年前共事两年的CONNIE.我还保留着她当年的电话。她这个人,近20年没有换电话号码,所以很惊喜的是,一下联系上了。听到她电话里清脆的声音,突然心理很温暖。人一辈子,你会碰到几个那么活得洒脱又能温暖人的人,CONNIE就是其[
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