共轭斯德哥尔摩综合症

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斯德哥尔摩综合症乃是说,强盗虐待人质许久,到最后其对人质稍有好处,人质便感恩戴德,反为其开脱、赞美甚至爱上强盗。从心理学上看,人质被长期扣押,自己的心理状态已经绝望;死都是随时随地的事情,活着已经满足,益处定为奢望。因此强盗一点“好处”,就会令他想入非非、喜出望外? 日常生活中,极端刻薄猥琐贪婪之人,某天突然“慷慨”地把家里无用垃圾物什拿来送人,常也能让人感动乃至流涕,以为天大恩惠。朝和老mao时代,受尽凌辱而对金、mao 死心塌地者,不计其数。
 
斯德哥尔摩综合症之发病地,多在强权国家、布尔国家。因为那里的左派已经通过暴力取得了胜利,获得了全面的强力控制权。那里的患者(被控制者)不仅经常赞美施虐者,为恶人辩护,甚至反过来仇恨同情且欲行拯救者。
 
因此,作为心智正常之人, 虽然我们曾在前30年经受苦难,也失去了相当多的自由;后来恢复Gao考、“落实”政策、纠正冤\案之类的事情,好比有人夺去我们万万, 归还一百本是为了延续,也为提高奴役效率。故我们对此完全不必感恩戴德, 更不应该反过来认贼作父、视友为敌
 
那么与斯德哥尔摩综合症 “共轭 (conjugate) 的孪生病症是什么呢?
 
那就是当一个人做“好人”时间长了以后,当大家好日子过久了以后,就会认为“好事”乃是天经地义,好日子不足为奇。做好事之人稍有怠慢、闪失(甚至根本就没有大过犯的情况下)就会引起巨大愤怒。夫妇之间,朋友之间,同事之间, 国家之间常常如此。 心理学上:你逆来顺受,天天做好事之人,我们已经习惯了,你居然可以出格不逊? 帮忙十次, 一次不到就得罪;教会某教友,替某“慕道友”无偿接送孩子上下学数年,最后实在吃不消而放弃,反落下“某教友原来好人,后来不好了”之口实。所谓寸布恩,丈布仇,言者如斯。
 
在已经实现制度平等、制度尊重的国度,不仅不知足感恩,反而人为制造倾斜平等,变态尊重。照顾男人上女厕所之变态意愿,同情瘾君子吸大麻的感受,迎合非法移民之需求,屈就蛮横宗教,怜悯罪犯。。。。。欲成就锦上添“花”、美中加“美”。 说白了,这一切都是好日子过得太久、太舒服了。用最通俗的话来讲, 就是:吃饱撑的没事干, 实在不如洗黑炭! 假若西方国家依然处在温饱阶段,或者战争阶段, 不太可能发生这些无病呻吟之荒诞剧。左派表面是做“好事”,事实上是鼓励懒惰、鼓励作恶,鼓励违法,是惟恐天下不乱。
 
欧洲、美国左派,好日子过久了,不知道真正的痛苦和磨难在哪里!于是就鸡蛋里面找骨头。在文明国家寻找“不文明”;他们挥动开山斧,充当急先锋 在自由国度反为自由之敌开疆拓土,侵蚀自由!在文明国度反为文明之敌往来冲突击打文明! 往轻说是矫情、无病呻吟;往中说是不识抬举、有福没禄;往重说,就是邪恶驱动愚昧对敌真理和公义。
 
美国从自己成为大国以来,相对来说一直很有担当。见义勇为、慷慨助人少有怨言。当其它追随国家都富裕起来后,本应和美国一样多行公义,广施怜悯。然而事实是,川普总统因为美国的长期付出,希望其他大国对美国“公平”一点。话音一出马上捅了马蜂窝。西方盟国、东方厉害国,都不干了!
 
我们东方一直都是对美顺差,早已习惯多时了;不让我们占便宜,就是与我们为敌! 我们欧洲一直接受美国保护,习以为常许久了!让我们对美国公平一点? 那美国就不再是我们的盟友!任性是我特权,忍让是你本分。
 
《菜根谭》说:过俭则吝,过谦则卑,个人与国家同为一理。好日子过久了需要吃一点苦头才能明白事理;做好人若“谦让”过度,你以及你的美意常会被轻贱鄙视。主耶稣说: 不要把聖物給狗,也不要把你們的珍珠丟在豬前,恐怕牠踐踏了珍珠,轉過來咬你們 【新约圣经:太七6】 。属灵意义是:勿让福音受羞辱;属世意义为:文明要与向往文明之人分享,自由要与珍惜自由之人分享,爱要与懂爱之人分享。智慧言语说与谦卑人听,花赠爱花人
 
斯德哥尔摩综合症是在专横之地,受虐之人反为施虐者辩护,维持专横; “共轭”斯德哥尔摩综合症多发生在发达国家自由富足之地、左派人群之中享福之人不仅不惜福,反自我摧残、轻贱、自己毁灭富足、亲手卑贱地出让、断送幸福和自由。
 
奈何斯德哥尔摩综合症患者害怕恶人反“热心”为恶人辩护,欲得“宽容”美名? “共轭”斯德哥尔摩综合症患者明知善人宽容,于是就“勇敢”探寻他们瑕疵,欲得“公义”及“不畏强暴”之名声?
 
富贵不能淫,贫贱不能移,威武不能屈,此之谓大丈夫 ”。即便我们做不了孟子言下之大丈夫, 受虐不抗争而沉默享福不感恩而无言;拒绝反过来助纣为虐扶持恶人,拒绝反过来击打义人,践行做人之起码底线并不困难。
 
 
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HCC 发表评论于
@nightrider

I think what is more imperative for you is to get your facts straight.

Recognize that the world is not all trying to "fleece" the U.S., and stop falling prey to the wild and nutty conspiracy theories that are laughable to a normal person capable of independent thinking. Mr. Trump is not widely regarded as a person of substantial intelligence or wisdom. There is a good reason for that. Your rush to his ideology's aid will likely result in regret one day.
HCC 发表评论于
@nightrider


Your second paragraph is equally misplaced.

Europeans paid for their own defense. Yes -- the U.S. paid the largest share for NATO -- at 22%. No -- that does not mean Europeans aren't paying their bills. Europeans pay for 78% of NATO budget (including Canada, which pays 6.3%) -- 3.5 times more than the US.


Your claim of Europe "...charging much higher tariffs on our exports than we theirs" is simply not the case. See below:

"WTO statistics show that the EU’s average trade-weighted tariff was 3 per cent in 2015, the latest year for which this figure was available. Canada’s average trade-weighted tariff was 3.1 per cent, compared with 2.4 per cent for the US."

See https://www.ft.com/content/2edf26f8-6b28-11e8-b6eb-4acfcfb08c11

That is hardly "much higher."



Didn't I tell you to be wary of the words of Mr. Trump?
HCC 发表评论于
@nightrider


Nope.

Firstly, your claim of "China had promised to allow over 50% controlling holding of financial institutions" is flat out wrong.

What "financial institution" are you talking about? Bank? Insurance company? Brokerage firm? China promised different things for different entities. For non-life insurance, it is 51%. For life-insurance, it is 50%. For asset management companies, it is 49% (3 years after entry to WTO). For brokerages, it is 1/3. Not to mention, China already agreed to relax the ownership limits since last year.

Do you even know what you are talking about?

Which promise did China not comply? Did you know that one could file a complaint against it in the WTO and ask for a panel to be established to rule on the complaint? How many complaints were filed against China for this "50% controlling holding of financial institutions"?



Secondly, the former WTO Director-General Pascal Lamy gave China an "A+" for its performance since its entry to the WTO.

(See http://www.businessinsider.com/us-trade-disputes-dont-stop-the-wto-from-giving-china-an-a-2011-10)

Mr. Lamy also blasted the U.S. for not complying with rules.

(See https://www.reuters.com/article/us-usa-wto/wto-should-prepare-for-life-without-u-s-ex-chief-lamy-says-idUSKCN1G326S)


The above also does not change the fact that the U.S. is the one who is the most sued in WTO -- more so than any other country or region, period.


Don't let words from one side of trade muddy your judgment.
nightrider 发表评论于
@HCC:

It is you who needs to fact check. China has reneged on many commitments made to gain accession to WTO. For example, it had promised to allow over 50% controlling holding of financial institutions; it had promised to refrain from requiring technology transfer as a condition of market access; it had promised to open the telecommunications market to foreign producers.

As for the European allies, they have been relying on the generous defense expenditure of the US paid for dearly by us the taxpayers and saving their military budget to sustain their socialist welfare states and feed their lazy and slouches. They have been charging much higher tariffs on our exports than we theirs.

Yes, we, including the previous presidents, have tolerated us being fleeced. That does not mean we have been happy about it. It is now time to right the wrongs and to reckon the debt.
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Good article!
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>>>然而事实是,川普总统因为美国的长期付出,希望其他大国对美国“公平”一点。话音一出马上捅了马蜂窝。西方盟国、东方厉害国,都不干了!

完全不是事实。

川普胡言乱语一通是他的事,版主不查查就照本宣科那就是你的责任了。其他大国何来“不公平”了?所有国家依照WTO规则进行贸易,规则也是美国同意的。运作多年,只有川普突然一拍脑袋,觉得吃亏了。买东西卖东西都是美国人外国人同意才行,那来甚么“不公平”?要说不公平--在WTO里贸易不公被告最多次的,就是美国(被告145次,无国能及)。

要说顺差,呵呵,只见外国人赚美金,不见美国人转身再去印美金?

真以为美国前任总统们,美联儲主席们,高盛出身的财政经济部长们,全世界最多诺贝尔经济奖得主们都是苯蛋?

不如一个破产6次兼被告诈欺赔了两千五百万的地产商?

川普信口开河是出了名的,奉劝不要轻信此人的呓语为佳。

xiaoge 发表评论于
言之有理
觅音 发表评论于
好文!
TakeMyTime 发表评论于
说得不错,很有道理。
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