use Cn names zhouwidowsanyou***I do not mean that we need to look at the Japanese, but one thing the Japanese does better than us is that they never use western names even when they live among the westerners. Look at ourselves, we have too many "Johns", "Peters" and whatever the damned thing is. This phenomenon shows Chinese are not confident enough. If you are not confident, you are certainly to be looked down upon.
alexoor 发表评论于 2006-08-25 14:14:02
it is a really good suggestion alexoor***We do need such a good movie directed by Lee to change the impression
DaHeiTu 发表评论于 2006-08-25 12:57:48
It is because of Chinese men DaHeiTu***It is because of Chinese men themselves. For example, they always give them a European name, and some of them belive European religion. They look at themselves in that way and hate how they look, do you still expect white men respect them?
1.对东西方的男人和女人的争论其实并无多大意义，因为都是在各自的环境下成长起来的，所接受的文化氛围和教育也不一样，所以就形成了各自的风格。没有哪种各好的说法，只要各自觉得合适就好。
2.并不是说中国男人就找不到西方女孩做恋人。我就看到很多中国的男孩子找了白人女孩做女朋友，甚至做老婆的，过得照样很开心。关键是，要敢说敢做。其实白人女孩很多很开放，只要敢和她们聊，她们大多不会拒绝。如果聊得开心，想更进一步都不是难事。但前提是，你的英文水平一定要好！很多人说因为这个那个原因不敢开口，或者说美国女人贪钱难伺候。对此，我只能说，是他们自己没有足够的自信！什么事都是要尝试的，不试就说这说那，正应了这样一句话：“狐狸吃不到葡萄，就说葡萄是酸的。”
3.很明显的，Size doesn't matter！关键是技巧和沟通。性爱并不一定非得插入dick,用其它方法也能达到高潮。只是很多女人迷信dick大的就一定爽。我们中国男人对自己就一定要有自信，其实大部分白人男子的平均size和中国男人的平均size差不多。A片里的那都是挑出来的种马，大可不必感到自卑！
4.作者说得很对，要想改善中国男人的形象，首先就要改变影视作品中男人的形象。没看到韩剧里的韩国男人都迷死不少女生吗？同一个道理的。