我以前也会觉得是家庭教育的问题。但最近两年在身边认识的人中发生了一些事,才觉得除了极少数父母,其实孩子走的路是老天注定的。这个导演家里其他两个孩子都好好的呀。我看到几年前这个儿子给的访谈,他很早就resent 自己不如夫父亲有天分,多产。有些孩子特别ambitious,但天份或者勤奋不够,取得的成就与自我期望之间有一条巨大的鸿沟。他们又不能自洽,常常将之怪罪在环境与父母身上,要么吸毒,要么自杀,要么抑郁。反正我是很不同意美国文化里那种yes you can的所谓鼓励法。
ltheater 发表评论于 2025-12-15 15:17:25 诚信 发表评论于 2025-12-15 14:51:13Trump is a pathological liar, a coward, and a villain, without any steady, consistent policies or efforts. He always provokes, and then concedes and capitulates.
He never honors his promise, never honors his presidency, and never honors his country. Especially, he never honors himself. He is a despicable loser, failing on each and every thing.
诚信 发表评论于 2025-12-15 14:51:13Trump is a pathological liar, a coward, and a villain, without any steady, consistent policies or efforts. He always provokes, and then concedes and capitulates.
He never honors his promise, never honors his presidency, and never honors his country. Especially, he never honors himself. He is a despicable loser, failing on each and every thing.
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看看你咬牙切齿面目扭曲的样子,我看你也仇恨川普到了精神病的地步。
BeckyLin 发表评论于 2025-12-15 14:52:00
民主党对毒贩们特别仁慈。结果害人害己。
诚信 发表评论于 2025-12-15 14:51:13
Trump is a pathological liar, a coward, and a villain, without any steady, consistent policies or efforts. He always provokes, and then concedes and capitulates.
He never honors his promise, never honors his presidency, and never honors his country. Especially, he never honors himself. He is a despicable loser, failing on each and every thing.