She was probably being ostracized because of her personality. No one in her close circle wanted to help her. You can imagine she had no friends in college. Mom is right, the tragedy of hers started from herself. Of course it was very unfortunate but it's really too late to blame anyone on this.
I'm of the same age of hers, my birthday was just a week ahead of hers. There's no gray hair or obvious signs of aging yet. I have lived well.
A 50 year old woman could be very healthy, having a decent job, a few adorable children and enjoying a good life. She got the curse indeed.
孙铊逃亡澳洲，涉嫌隐瞒犯罪嫌疑人身份，修改身份背景、欺瞒澳洲入境管理，依法可以在澳洲立案侦查