评论: 中国全职妈妈:花3000元租自习室，逃离家庭

矫情！没有好好学学育儿经，只知道躲避，还是在那么多帮助下都无法胜任母亲的天职就不应该有孩子。

How stupid she is. I have had three young children and there's no helper except for the first month when my mom was with us. I totally enjoy being with my children. So I stayed at home with them, one by one, for ten years, until they were old enough to go to preschool/daycare. It's very natural for a mother to be alone with a baby. If there's nothing else in between them it's very easy. Everyday there was a flow between my baby and me, waking up, feeding, napping, playing, going to bed again. It was such a good time in my life I totally miss it! If not for making money, I'd never go to work again. But my babies have outgrown their sweet baby and toddler stages and it's time for me to start making money for them and I did it. Alas! My days with them were so full of joy.

租个办公室，非常好的主意。对我有启发。也可以家里搞个隔音房间。

感觉挺不可思议的。她父母两人住在家里照顾他们，还另加一个保姆。。。都不够吗？ 还有，她父母的帮助，她好像take的相当理直气壮。为人父母，如果有能力和精力帮子女照顾第三代，支持孩子在重要的阶段保证职业发展，真的是子女的运气。不过这好像什么时候也不应该成为必须的好吧？

难道说新人类们已经进化到夫妇两人合力都不能照顾自己的孩子了吗？ 如果真的是这样，人类走向extinction也没啥毛病。

娃送幼儿园可解

这个妈妈自己本身有问题，同意楼下。其实孩子很晚不睡也是跟她太惯了孩子有决定性关系，小孩本来就是用哭闹来威胁父母，第一次妥协了他以后就会变本加厉。你不妥协他就大哭大闹。唯一办法就是心要狠。他再哭你也只是保持沉默不妥协，小孩哭累了自然就学到教训。孩子本质上还是和幼儿园孩子玩更有益身心健康。

归根到底的原因在她自己和她丈夫，根本不在社会和父母。她自己因为童年时期父母陪伴缺失造成的不安全感，导致自己做母亲以后对孩子的过度照顾，所幸的是，她好像已经认识到了其实孩子对母亲的依赖没有她想象的那样歇斯底里。她丈夫其实是更大的问题，无论什么工作，每星期七天工作每年夜里10点回家，这也是不正常的。她说她丈夫支持她寻求个人空间，这当然很好，可是如果她丈夫不分时间照顾家庭，那么这其实是把她原本承担的工作转嫁到她父母那里了呀。还有这个丈夫的“深度交流”的要求，我看着简直可笑：你媳妇儿都累成这样了，你把“深度交流”的时间用在带孩子上，让她喘口气儿，不必什么交流都有用吗？更可笑的是，她自己很吃这个。