This is rather a foolish (无聊的) topic. Chest hair is not a factor determining whether or not to date (it should be date rather than marry) Chinese men. Although Caucasians have hair, they often save the hair to look good. So hairy or not does not matter.
Regarding 小气, well, it doesn't matter if the guy is Chinese or American or Canadian or British or French or Russian, it is sure turnoff for women. But most Chinese men are quite generous, always taking girls out for meals or shopping. Yes, I have met 小气 Chinese men too. They are ... hardly men anyway to waste one's time.
I am rather put off by awful comments about western women (洋妞). They sound to me like 狐狸吃不到葡萄,就说葡萄是酸的.
If you finish reading the story, chest hair is not an issue. The issue has to do to manner, culture, integrity and communication skills of the men.