揭秘畲族婚礼:新娘哭3天 花轿挂五花肉
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雷文琼,是一位畲族姑娘,从小生长在福建霞浦县溪南镇半月里畲族村。畲族至今保留着传统而繁复的婚嫁习俗,其中最为特别的当属“哭嫁”。而这一天,是她正式出嫁的日子。(摄影:王福平
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按照畲族的传统婚俗,一场完整的婚礼除了要经过“提亲、看寮、讨庚、合婚、压圆、回帖、下定、做表姐、做亲家伯、成亲、做头客”等过程外,最重要的环节是新娘出嫁前的“哭嫁”。一般要哭上三天三夜,直到新娘的声音哭哑为止。在新娘雷文琼的嫁日当天,亲人们都赶过来听哭嫁歌,好不热闹。(来自:微言薄语)
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午饭过后,伯母还是为新娘梳妆打扮。畲族有崇拜凤凰的传统,新娘的姑娘发式被拆开,梳成已婚妇女的凤凰头。梳扎时,先把头发分为前后两部,中间放一支长约二十厘米的黑布竹卷筒,用红线扎紧往上折,把整股头发从左到右盘绕于头顶,呈螺旋状,最后形成独具一格的盘龙状高髻。(来自:微言薄语)
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新娘头戴凤冠,身穿凤装,带着一生中最漂亮的面容和装饰坐在闺房床前,喜悦里夹杂着浓浓的离别情愁。她牵着母亲的手,低着头,用畲族方言断断续续地清唱着哭嫁歌,带着哭腔,叙说着父母的养育之恩。而母亲则不时与新娘对唱,诉说离别之情,闺房里哭声一片。(来自:微言薄语)
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“噼里啪啦”,闺房外传来迎亲队伍的鞭炮声和鼓乐声。迎亲队伍浩浩荡荡地走进娘家大院,却不见新郎的身影。原来,在畲族婚俗中,新郎官只在自家等候迎亲。(来自:微言薄语)
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一时间,鞭炮唢呐齐鸣,伴娘们迎了上去与走在最前头的迎亲伯对唱山歌,嬉戏索要着“红包”。(来自:微言薄语) (来自:微言薄语)
此时,新娘便在亲人的挽扶下从闺房走到厅堂与胞弟开始举行分灶仪式,吃三口饭,再吐到一块红布内包好。(来自:微言薄语)
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姐弟俩吃了饭后,再各自把筷子和五谷扔撒向厅堂,寓意夫家人丁兴旺、五谷丰登。(来自:微言薄语) (来自:微言薄语)
临近傍晚,出嫁的时辰快到了,奶奶依依不舍地拉住新娘的手。(来自:微言薄语) (来自:微言薄语)
在赤郎们冲进内房“抢”走陪嫁品后,新娘在母舅的牵引下坐上花轿。(来自:微言薄语) (来自:微言薄语)
花轿门前挂着米筛、猪肉和梳妆镜,预示着丰衣足食、幸福美满。(来自:微言薄语) (来自:微言薄语)
看着花轿跨出娘家大门的一刹那,新娘的母亲大哭起来。她回忆起当初嫁到雷家时,也是一样的场景、一样的仪式,却一晃便是二十多年。(来自:微言薄语)
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时至今日,出嫁,仍是畲族女人一生中最大的事情。从这一天起,新娘担任起承载家庭命运的妻子、母亲和媳妇的角色。而畲族人用以庆祝和纪念这一特殊日子的独特婚嫁习俗,保留至今,亦成为了中华传统民俗中一块奇异瑰丽的活化石。(来自:微言薄语)
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